Ok. So I'm going to first admit, I'm not the toughest guy there is.
I don't call women "bitches" without them giving me serious reason.
I don't like hurting people without REALLY good reason.
I'm a nice guy. I'm big on respect. So when my uncle tells me I'm a dumbass for breaking up with my ex I took it seriously, and here's why.
For a time, I was living with my ex, and this is after we broke up. I slept in her bed ( When I was supposed to sleep 2 floors below her ), We had sex 3-4 times a week, I paid $200 in rent every month.
Then things changed and She and her family moved a few miles away and I moved back in with my mother and the rest of my family.
However, My ex still wanted me, and this was a problem because it made her crazy enough to subtly threaten me with bodily harm and be completely serious about. The last time it happened We were in the process of having sex when she starts musing about what I mean to her and how I make her feel......and that she's noticed that her hands are too small to do any damage if she choked me....
She's been slowly heading into some very disturbing directions.
That's just a little background, here's the bad advice I was given.
I was told to go get her back. To continue having sex with her, and to completely dominate her at all times.
Now I understand why I was told this, if she hadn't been certifiably crazy it all could have worked out a while longer.
She was a virgin when I met her and I'm still the only person she's had sex with. (I'm a guy but she's shown interest in females), I have her partially trained already to do what I want and when I want it, and with a little nudging and time I could very easily have her completely bent to my will.
She's already willing to travel 3 hours away to come to where I live to have sex for 2 hours and then go sit somewhere away from my house for a few more hours until she can get a ride home. She'll do anal whenever I want. She'll give me money when I ask. I could have had everything a guy could ask for sexually.
But she fucking insane! And on top of that, she wants a serious relationship and by dangling that carrot in her face, I would eventually wear her down emotionally and leaving her completely devoted to me in order to fill the void I've left in her.
I don't want to hurt her anymore is why I've cut her off.
No more texts.
No more calls.
No more hanging out with mutual friends together.
Nothing.
I could have kept her on a leash and probably still could, she's just that attached to me.
But I know that in doing so I'd be killing her slowly, and she doesn't deserve that.
Hopefully there are more men like me that can think with their brains more than their penis.
